Just because you appear confident and positive in relationships doesn’t mean you don’t suffer from fear of intimacy. Is there a point part way into any relationship where you start to experience feelings of panic and either sabotage the connection or just leave? Do people tell you you have a ‘wall’ they can’t get past? 10 psychological issues that mean you can’t fall in love 1. So before you decide that you can’t fall in love, consider if these psychological blocks are the real problem. Shutting down to love can lead not just to loneliness but to depression, anxiety, and a lowered immune system. But consistent connection and support from others that helps us recognise our value. Not the false representation offered by films and novels (more often than not a culture of addictive relationships over real love). Psychologically speaking, we do need love. Worry that you’ve never actually been in love but are just pretending? Or that something is wrong with you and you actually can’t fall in love? Or have you decided that love is silly anyways, you don’t really need it?
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